Okay, in Jan of 09' my transmission went out in my car. I called my in laws to see if they would cosign for me so I could get credit to get the repairs. They said yes and I got my car fixed. Since then I have been paying off the repairs every month. Some months I could only make the min. payment but usually it was either double or triple the min. payment. There is still a thousand dollar balance on this card (my repairs were close to 4 grand). Yesterday, my inlaws went to go get new tires for their truck. They were denied financing and they called me yelling and freaking out, saying that I havent been making the payments and that I ruined their credit. I was freaking cuz I pay every single month and I always pay on time. I tried to show my inlaws the payment records, but they were so angry they wouldnt even look. I called the company where they tried to get the tires and they told me that the reason they were turned down was because they have too many open credit accounts. So, to try and fix this I called the credit company that is financing my repairs and I paid off the card figuring that this would help them. Well, they arent happy with that either.They keep saying that I ruined their credit and they were never going to be able to fix it. They also told me that they canceled their vacation to Arizona because they couldnt get new tires. So to try and fix things again I offered to give them the $800 for the tires. They still werent happy. I dont know what else to do to smooth things over. I didnt even do anything wrong and they are furious at me. They are older and not very educated (not trying to slam them, just stating a fact) and they dont seem to understand how credit works. They dont grasp the concept that they have just financed to much stuff and now companies wont extend them as much credit as they want...and somehow thats all my fault! They are totally pissed at my husband too, and it wasnt even his loan, it was mine. I dont know how to make things right again. They already didnt like me to begin with..and now this incident has clinched it. I dont know what else to do, I paid off the card, I bought their tires, and I have been on the phone for a day and a half trying to get some kind of paperwork for them so they can see the account is paid in full. Any suggestions on how to calm them down? thanks!
Dear Jennifer, You must be so frustrated! I think you are being very responsible and like you said you haven't done anything wrong. But something is definitely wrong here. You have done everything right to resolve the situation. What more can you do? How can they afford an Arizona vacation if they can't even afford tires? If you gave them the $800 for the tires and they are still not happy, it looks like they are being unreasonable. It sounds like nothing you do will satisfy them. Could there be another reason for their unwillingness to even look at the paperwork? Is there something else going wrong that fueling their anger toward you? Because they are your husbands parents, I would sit down with him and ask him to talk to them before any more damage is done to the relationship. That is his responsibility to you. Being their son, he may be able to find out what's really going on. So sorry for what you are going through here. I do hope you and your husband can get them stop taking out their problems on you. Good luck and I hope it all works out. Deborah
To be honest with you sweetheart, i think thier doing just to spite you, i also think, because they dont like you already, if they keep this grudge it gives them more of a reason to dislike you. another reason could be, they might be trying to get more money off you, if they dont beleive you payed it off, they'll keep asking for money, just scamming you. I think if you let this lie for a little while, let it cool off, and then once its been a while have a slow, polite, rational conversation. Obviously its not your fault entirely maybe a little, but as you've paid it off, it should make thier credit rating higher. maybe because thier not so smart, read up on credit ratings and things, and then you can explain it to them, or get your husband to, in a "credit rating for dummies" way hope i helped :)
The credit situation has changed. Standards are much more stringent. Close that card. You have already apologized. this is family. so you can't just leave it. Tell them that you would be happy to make up for it if they would let you. then stop talking about.
You can not reason with unreasonable people so stop beating your head against a wall. You have done all that you can and you have acted in a responsible manner here so move on and let them be mad but do not let them make you feel guilty for this.
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